Hallöchen aus Berlin!

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    Hello everyone!

    First of all I want to apologize since I know this forum is in German and I’m writing in English, but I doubt I can make a smart, eloquent post with my level of German and don’t want to use ChatGPT since is gonna come off as fake AI wording.


    I’m berlin based and I’m new on this forum, I’ve been active on other forums (Reddit) but nothing compares to getting feedback or insights from people that actually live the lifestyle in Germany.


    So here are some of my questions:


    1. Does this forum offers some sort of profile reviews? I’ve read some post talking about why text is important and not sure mine sounds generic and maybe not sure what to write about…maybe would be nice to get some feedback?


    2. SB/SD based in Berlin, what’s your experience? Is it more difficult in Berlin than any other cities in Germany? I’ve struggled to find someone who values the same things as me, that being connection, respect and generosity, I usually find either connection and respect but no generosity…or just “generosity” (that I would say is more like just easy pay) but no intent on building a relationship based on connection and respect.


    3. Language: ok I speak some German but it’s not fluent enough to be able to have a meaningful connection with someone, that being said I’ve met many gentlemen who are fluent in English but have a resistance to me not being able to speak fluently; even though, of course, I’m willing to improve (not like I’m rejecting learning the language).


    4. Age: I’m 34 not sure if I’m already too old for this lifestyle, I would say I read lots of profiles that seek women between 18-30 or even less. What’s your point of view here?


    5. First meet: what’s the normal standard here, do you expect to have full intimacy on the first date? I would say for me is just like any regular dating, I would prefer to meet the person platonically for a few dates before getting intimate and at the same time I don’t expect money (Although I’ve received nice initial small and meaningful gifts and I just love it).


    6. And last but not least, is there’s such a thing as “freestyling” here in Berlin? And if so, where? How? When? lol, with a friend or alone?


    if you’ve made this far I appreciate it! And please be kind 😉

    I'm not really familiar with Berlin specifically (since most of your questions seem to be tailored around that particular city), but I'll answer your questions anyway.


    1. Not really, but you can ask (although it's probably better to keep it to this thread, so we don't contaminate the entire forum with posts in English).


    2. First of all, I doubt that your experience would be significantly different in other big German cities: it's not really an isolated 'market'. Perhaps you should also consider looking beyond Berlin, as pretty much all major cities in Germany are less than 5 hours away by high-speed train. And regarding your experience itself... you'll find many posts on this forum (from SDs and SBs) complaining about the same thing (i.e. how difficult it is to find a suitable partner).


    3. Many Germans (especially the older generations) are very hesitant to actually speak English in a real-life situation, even if they can (and many simply can't).


    4. Well, it's certainly not optimal, but as they say: 'there's a lid for every pot'. However, to put it bluntly: I think that your age and lack of German language skills will automatically disqualify you for many SDs. You can compensate for this with your personality and other qualities, but I don't think that it will be easy to find a 'high quality' SD.


    5. Whatever feels right to you (and your SD): there's no 'right' or 'wrong' way to do things, it all depends on the preferences between the two people involved. Although I can imagine that most men would be eager to take you to the 'bedroom' as soon as possible.


    6. I don't think that it's particularly common, but nothing stops you from trying this at venues with wealthy men (although I can imagine that there will be 'misunderstandings' about whether you want something in return or not).

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